Monday, December 22, 2008

Tacky Sweater Party

Maddy and I decided to throw a Christmas party together and then we realized that everyone (practically everyone) we invited could come so panic set in - neither one of our homes was big enough for 45-50 people!!! We were counting on several couples to have other commitments. We had no idea how popular we were. :) So we had to divide the party in half as not to suffocate our guests. Her guest list was at her house and my guest list was at my house. I WISH I had the forethought to take a picture of every couple but alas, I did not. Here are some highlights:

This display was the one elegant part of the evening.
The platter was our grand prize for best tacky holiday wear.

The party was such a blast. Great food brought by all the guests, a fun "lines from Christmas Movies" put together by Dustin and Maddy, (did we all know that Die Hard takes place at Christmas time therefore making it a Christmas movie and The Gremlins - remember them? The game was HARD!) and a white elephant gift exchange. We even had a roaring fire outside - thanks to Andy the Eagle Scout for starting the fire.

Darcy had sweater issues...
He got hot and had to remove his dickey turtleneck (without removing his sweater. Quick thinking Darcy.)

One of the favorite White Elephant gifts: A stuffed frog tissue dispenser. Totally was a hot item!

Another popular gift: A red balaclava (face mask) that was too small for Mark but just right for Heather's son who has been complaining of a cold face when he rides his bike to school so she stole it!

Some more great gifts that didn't get photographed...

A photo charm bracelet filled with photos of muscle men/body builders. Charming.
An autographed hockey puck signed by Wayne Gretzky
A 1 inch thick stack of Meredith & Steve's extra engagement photos

Everyone had to vote for the best sweater or outfit for the party.

Stacy won...not for a sweater but for a full holiday ensemble obviously assembled from holiday decor and accessories from around her house!

Several others got creative with puffy paint sweatshirts, hand sewn on real tree ornaments and jingle bells, and Cliff Huxtable sweaters that really brought the holiday spirit! Molly even had a shirt with a star that had flashing lights!

Joe won the boobie prize of a "new to you" holiday spirit sweatshirt. To his credit, at least his hat was red and he was the one who made the awesome muscle men charm bracelet but as for as general attire goes, he had the scroogiest outfit. So, we hooked him up.

Molly and Andy in their holiday finest.

Steve and Mer at the end of the party. Can I tell you I looked for several days to find sweaters and holiday wear for us and didn't find much??? It was hard! And each time I was at a thrift store, I saw someone else on the hunt as well. Tacky sweater parties are all the rage now I guess. Steve was extra thrilled when he found laid out on the bed for him to wear this awesome woman's shirt that says "believe" across the chest in an extra festive design. My outfit? A red t-shirt with homemade holiday fabric appliques outlined in gold glitter puff paint, underneath a long sleeve button up shirt with gingerbread men, jingle bell earrings, and on my ponytail was Lindsay's red and green puffy fluffy jingle bell hair thingy.

Oh, and some holiday socks.





Sunday, December 21, 2008

Sneak Peak...

Here is a link to my photography session with my photographer last Monday. I used one of the shots in my "naughty or nice?" header! OK, my photographer was my sister Molly, and I was really needing a family picture for my Christmas card and my girlfriend who did our photo session last year was having issues in her family and we couldn't get connected so I asked Molly to do it. The weather was awful all week and we just went for it. The location was great, the rain stopped, and it was very lovely - thanks Whitney for the tip on the Seville Country Club location!

We had recently attended an entry level photography class taught by my friend Shauni. She has taken photos of my family a couple of times and sadly, I think she is now out of my price range! But she is SOOO talented and is always booked. Anyway, Molly got a new camera last year (which I will admit I covet a tiny bit - I dinked around with it to do Kate's birth announcement photos) and we have both been anxious to start learning more about photography. Photography, as I explained to Steve when he asked if "photography was really THAT hard" is more than just lining a group of people up and saying "say cheese!" It is lighting and composition and timing and knowing how to get the most out of your equipment to capture the best moments, expressions, and emotions. We have a lot to learn with the ISO and aperture settings and manual modes so over half the pictures were blurry but we had enough to work with to squeeze out a great Christmas card this year! Right now I am on a hunt on Craigslist to buy a used digital SLR - hopefully after Christmas I can find a good deal on a used set-up - that will save some serious dough - and I can keep working on my photog skills. One thing that Shauni emphasaized in her class was not to upgrade equipment until you have outgrown your current set-up. I have been squeezing the most out of my digital point and shoot and do a lot of post-editing on special photos but am ready for more control with a fully manual camera and lens kits and all the fun that comes with that.

(By the way...what is the answer to that question in my header...I wonder..Santa wants to know!)




Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Happy 5th Birthday Caroline!!!

Caroline and Steve December 2008 (from our Christmas card photo shoot courtesy of my sister Molly - I couldn't resist this picture of Caroline and her Daddy.)

Thanks for this one too Molly!

My little girl Caroline is growing up and I cannot stand it! She has been anticipating her birthday like crazy and has been asking me all kinds of questions along the lines of "at Christmas will I be 5?" " Next summer will I be 5?" When we see Kayleigh and Bobby next will I be 5?" I try to remind my kids as birthdays approach that they will never be the previous age ever again so let's enjoy it! They never get it but I guess being little is all about trying to get bigger. I think I remember those days. Now that I am beginning to see how much they grow, I am trying to soak them up like a sponge and enjoy each age and stage that much more.

What I want to remember about my Caroline at this age:

She is a Tom Boy. We call her Sporty Spice. Her favorite shoes are camo and pink sparkle sneakers. She is totally into layers; the more the better. Always has at least two shirts on, if not more, and often layers leggings under everything, including her fluffy fancy church dresses. Her favorites? Character: TinkerBell. Food: chicken nuggets, french fries, steak, & vegetables. She has a big mouth. I mean, physically large, easily twice the size of Lindsay's. The big mouth comes from Daddy; (the small mouth comes from me...oh the irony...) Candy: Starburst, Kit-Kat, and GUM! Hairstyle: Two ponies or a flat-ironed flip - she is growing out her hair after all! TV shows: "Frank" (Franklin), Maggie (& the Ferocious Beast), Miss Spider, and Sesame Street (though she won't admit the latter.) What she likes to do with her sisters: Loves to color with Lindsay and play most anything actually. Kate - she likes to "poove" her (she made up this word) - to blow a raspberry on her tummy. She adores preschool and Mrs. Packer. She can write her name and is getting pretty good at forming all her letters - I am so proud of her - Caroline is not the shortest name on the books and she has done a great job "perfecting" her lettering. She knows a crazy number of the 50 states. Sure, there are genius children on Jay Keno and Oprah who knew all 50 states at 18 months but this is impressive to me nonetheless. She loves to come and tell me the new state she learned. It is funny - she can tell me about the state but doesn't remember the name so I rattle off several until her No's turn into a Yes! She is at this strange age of tetering between toddler hood and big kid hood. But, she plays up really well and is great to the little guys too - she is truly a good friend.

And now for the fine print:
She has her personality quirks and strange tendencies, I'm not gonna lie! She can be so sweet and gentle and poof! That girl disappears and a snarly grump enters in her place. She can get a little mean and verbally aggressive - I know she doesn't mean to be "mean" - she is probably being a typical middle child trying to assert herself and show some authority so we are working on appropriate reactions and how to treat people with more kindness more often! it is a work in progress. But I find that the more I spend quality time with her the less snarly and unnecessarily aggressive she is in general. She gets carsick. It doesn't happen too often around here since we don't have a curve or hill anywhere near us. But everytime we travel, you can set a clock by her getting sick. Poor thing.

One school outfit she was particularly proud of. She chooses her clothes every day. She definitely has a different sense of style than Lindsay. Looser requirements for matching.

LOVE the fake lace-up socks with the silver sparkle shoes. So Caroline.

These are the camo and pink sparkle sneakers. She adores these and wears them whenever she can. I wish she would want to learn to tie them...

Oh, the week she needed to decorate an "F" and a "T" she was in heaven!
F for Fairy and T for TinkerBell of course!

Daddy was able to drop by the preschool Thanksgiving Feast and check out our little Indian. Caroline was beyond thrilled because Steve does not often get to participate in school events except for the twice a year programs.

My little baker helping in the kitchen.

Not little orphan Caroline. One thursday I had a lot of house-work and decided to make it a "teach Caroline all the household skills she will ever need to know" day and she had such a great time and was grinning from ear to ear all day. Sure, less got done than I wanted but we had fun together and even stopped to read together a little bit.

Love you baby!!!!!! 5 years ago you were my favorite Christmas present and still are!
Happy Birthday!!!

Sunday, December 7, 2008

That Baby Kate sure is a sloppy kisser!

My morning snuggle mate

And with that declaration, we say, happy 7 months Kate! She sure does have an adoring fan club - we can all sit around being entertained by her for quite a while. We have enjoyed watching her discover the Christmas season - the lights, the gift wrap under the tree, sneaking treats, etc. She brings out the best in her sisters - Lindsay's responsible and nurturing spirit and Caroline's softer and more gentler side. (Though we still think Kate occasionally gets a look of trepidation as Caroline comes close...) She is quite a welcome distraction for Steve when he comes home from a busy and stressful day at work, which seems to be every day lately, poor guy!

Kate is a tiny bundle of joy. What started as a big rollie-pollie multi-chinned 9 lb 9 oz baby is now a petite little peanut - barely 14 lbs. She has small hands and feet and in fact she is skimming the 10% percentile for weight. We really can't go anywhere without getting comments yes, on all the hair, but lately, it is the big blue eyes. And they are dreamy.

She does not have a full repertoire of tricks yet - I am sure they are coming. Though the sloppy kisses I mentioned in the post title are for real - big open mouthed laughing giggling slobbering kisses are Kate's favorite. But we will take the 11 hour overnight sleep stretches! She can almost sit up; she gets a little tippy still and falls over. I am not sure how much her corrective braces are slowing her down. She rolls some but doesn't roll across the room or anything. (Good thing because the girls are still getting used to not leaving their junk out where little curious hands will grab at their things and stick them in her mouth.) She has recently found Mommy's earrings and Daddy's glasses. Nothing is safe, I tell ya!

This little one is a great eater - I don't think I have given her anything yet that she has not liked. Applesauce, Pears, Bananas, of course. Squash, Sweet Potato, Avocado, you betcha! Oh, and she has a sweet tooth too - the girl loves ice cream and cheesecake. (Shhhh....don't tell Dr. Wallace.) She reaches out for whatever we are drinking and wants a sip (that runs down her front) but she is trying.

Kate is truly the baby going along for the ride in our busy hectic schedule. Off to errands, gymnastics, big kiddos school, whatever, she takes it in reasonable stride. It is funny that with first and even second children the world revolves around the baby's schedule. Now, if Kate misses a nap, we pray for flexibility and she does OK! She loves a good ride in our sling - we recently when to an ASU game and plopped her in the sling and she was content as could be and I was hands free. Seriously, I think a baby sling is the most amazing baby gear item - those native ancient cultures had a good idea going - keep baby close, comfy, mom can be hands free when needed. I have even done some cooking with Kate in the sling - I just shift her around to my back when chopping things like onions or whatever. I call her my little buddy and my little girlfriend.

More of the happy morning girl. I love when I have a day like a Saturday or Sunday to just snuggle in bed for a little while after nursing Katers. (Yes -we call her Katers.) Week days it is tough to do that with kiddos to get to school and lunches to make and all...

Last night at our ward Christmas Party. Baby Kate was little miss popular! Her shirt reads "I'm on the nice list...trust me!" I picked this up at Old Navy last year right after Christmas. I am glad I remembered where it was in time for the Christmas season! My friend has a 7 week old baby and he was at the party. He is bigger than Kate. I am not kidding. He is almost 15 lbs.


We love this face she makes - all the more better when covered in orange squash. And the sippy cup? We think the sippy cups are bigger than her head!

At the ASU game last week. We LOVE our sling.

Waking up the babes - you gotta love a baby stretching and waking up. So cute.

Rolling on the floor with her sister Caroline. We think Kate looks a lot like Caroline now, though not so much as Caroline as a baby.


Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Given' Thanks, Haulin' Out the Holly, Fun Stuff, your typical marathon post.

We have a little tradition - it's called "Let's give the baby her first lemon wedge and see what happens." Wednesday night before Thanksgiving, we went to dinner to one of our favorite Mexican places since we had a great coupon and I didn't feel like cooking (or more likely, Steve didn't feel like eating what I was willing to cook that night, probably pancakes or something so I was happy to oblige.) While we were out, we decided to give Katers her first lemon wedge. (Consequently, we think Caroline got her first lemon wedge at the same restaurant!)

I think the photos speak for themselves.


For Thanksgiving, we were invited to join with Debbie's family at her sister Janet's house. Janet, who has the awesome pool mentioned in this post. There was a rumor that they may heat the hot tub up but the weather was not cooperating, being a rainy day and all. But, it was a lovely day nonetheless. Any rainy day here is savored. Anyway, I was asked to bring homemade rolls and I was happy to do so. For our family, I am usually the baker and spend Wednesday and Thursday morning baking upwards of 9 pies and a double batch of rolls. This year I got off easy because Judy and Janet made blackberry pies with berries from the family cabin property and it was delicious! I was not great about getting pictures but here are a couple...

Thanksgiving morning artists

Chillin' with one of the dogs at Janet's house. Steve likes dogs. Good thing he likes me more because I don't like dogs and we won't ever be getting one.

You all know this scene...played out at homes across the nation - post early afternoon dinner coma. Steve and my Dad.

A couple of drowned rats anxiously waiting some pie. They had been playing outside in the rain of course!

Friday night we were able to attend the ASU vs. UCLA football game. We had a fantastic time! My friend's husband is the head trainer for the football team (He's the guy who is the first to rush on the field for injuries) and she told me that any time we wanted tickets he could most likely get get them for us so this was the first time we took her up on it. Sure, it was a 7:30 game which meant getting home at about 11pm but its not like it was a school night or anything. It was a pretty good game if you are an ASU fan - I had never seen a 100 yard interception return for a touchdown, at least, not that I ever knew I saw!

It's amazing how quickly a free game turns into:
$10 Parking
$7 two pom poms hair ponies
$6 cotton candy
$7 two Italian Ice's
$4 one nacho
(I chose not to get the fancy $5 caramel apple but I really wanted it.)

Everyone at the game. Kate was great - she just hung out in the sling and snuggled and then fell asleep. The big girls enjoyed themselves too - as long as daddy kept them filled with stadium snacks, they were having a great time!

Clockwise from top left - 1. the girl's favorite part of the night: riding the courtesy cart from the ticket gate at the bottom of the hill to the stadium. Sun Devil stadium is built into a mountain side and has a steep walk-up. 2. Watching the game with Daddy with their fancy new Sun Devil pom pom hair ponies. 3. Eating some of that pricey cotton candy. 4. Daddy shelling out the cash.

The girls have several decorations for their own room. I passed along our first nativity set to Lindsay several years back when I got my first larger set. I have since bought the girls each a small set and plan to do so every once in a while. We also started a tradition of buying them a snow globe each year (just started last year) but I have already purchased one for them this year so that makes it a tradition, right? They have a 4 ft pre-lit tree (with colorful lights - they chose it, not me...I would have chosen clear of course.) They have all their own ornaments they have received as gifts or trinket ornaments from parties, Santa jingle bells, etc. Turns out this tree is great leverage for bedtime behavior. It gets taken out of their room if we hear a peep (or a crash against a wall which is usually more likely). Since going up, it has happened once. They got it back and (so far) went to bed perfectly.
The girls in the process of decorating. They cleared a toy shelf for their nativities and snow globe.

This is, of course, the official decorating for Christmas weekend. A few highlights...and a lowlight.

A prayer answered.

About 4 or 5 years ago, I convinced Steve that we needed to buy a pre-lit fake tree. This goes against everything I believe in because where I was raised, outside of Portland, OR, was the heart of Christmas Tree Farm Land, that magical place where all the lots that sell fresh trees have banners that say "Fresh Cut Oregon Christmas Trees" get those trees. It really pained me to buy a fake tree but it was $100+ well spent. I don't remember how much it cost but I know it has paid for itself in what we had been paying for a dead fresh tree every year.

Now, we say a prayer to the Pre-lit Artificial Christmas Tree Gods that the tree lights work each year after spending 11 months baking in our garage.


Babes enjoyed sitting in her saucer watching the tree spring to life.

Obviously, we forgot to pray for the outside lights. This is the current state of our exterior lights.

We finally get to the outside lights late Saturday afternoon. We have a good set-up with plugging the lights into the coach lights by the garage so they are on a switch and timer. It works great...when the whole strand lights up! I think we forgot that last year some of the strings were on the fritz and only lit part way. (Note to self - if they aren't working, just chuck 'em - Christmas lights can't be repaired and sitting in the attic all summer certainly won't do them any favors.) It was starting to get dark so we had to abandon the lights until I bought some new ones. They are in a Wal-Mart bag as we speak. Hopefully, we get them up Saturday.

Few. I wonder how many calories are burned creating a Marathon blog post? Probably none. Lucky me.


Tuesday, December 2, 2008

It's the start of the Christmas season

Monday, being December 1st, begins the countdown to Christmas! The kids are beside themselves with excitement and have been toting around their "Santa notes" with wishes galore. Caroline is learning to write and it is so sweet to watch her form her words on the paper - she can ask how to spell a word and for the most part knows all the letters now which is great for her - she has finally caught the writing/reading letters bug. Lindsay is so funny - she started writing her list quite tiny because she remembers last year running out of room on her paper. Now, she doesn't have enough wishes to fill her paper. This makes me nervous because she has things on her list like a cell phone, heelies, iPod, Crystal Chandelier, camera, etc. Any one of those items could break Santa's bank so we will see what happens!

Tonight the girls wanted to do a Star Wars play for us. We said it could be our FHE lesson if they incorporated Gospel principles into the lesson. That shouldn't be hard since it is a well known fact that Yoda was modeled after Spencer W. Kimball and The Force in Star Wars is modeled after the Priesthood! Hahaha!! Anyway, I wondered what they would come up with. Lindsay's lesson: "Star Wars is like the Gospel because Star Wars has the Force and The Force helps you to live. The Gospel is like Star Wars because the Gospel helps you to live. Now, welcome to our play."
We had Lindsay, a Jedi Knight with a purple light saber and Padme with her blue life saver. Earlier that day we had made light sabers with heavy duty fabric roll tubes, construction paper, and silver wrapping paper. They loved them though I think "real light sabers" are going to make their way to their Wish Lists. The Jedi Knight wore tall boots, a pink tunic shirt and belt, and mommy's robe which she shed with dramatic flair before her battle. Padme is a queen and wears lovely layers that resemble a Japanese Kimono. Our Padme wore (from the undermost layer out) shorts, T-shirt, her new silver dress, sweater, mommy's dress, and silver shoes. We enjoyed our battle show immensely - Caroline kept telling Lindsay to go easy on her but Caroline was whacking away with that life saver of hers!

A Jedi Knight and Padme (Queen Amidala)

The Scenery...stars and ships flying through space

The audience. We gave them rave reviews, of course.


We then broke out the new snowman mugs and had hot cocoa and vanilla ice cream as our treat.


Finally, we got to begin the first night our our advent tradition. We have wrapped story books under the tree and the girls take turns choosing a book to open and we read the story together. We also have our Christmas binder with a scripture, song, and story for each of the 24 days before Christmas. Baby Kate discovered the Christmas tree lights and gifts below - she was facinated and we were equally facinated and entertained watching her!

Merry Christmas everyone!